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Designed for modern members

Flirt boldly.
Connect deeply.

HeiFlirt is the safe, playful space where men and women flirt on their terms โ€” through shared interests, curated events, and smart matching.

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5K+Active Members
94%Feel Safer
2K+Real Matches Made
180+Cities Worldwide
Why Hei Flirt

Everything you need to connect with confidence

Built from the ground up for women who know what they want โ€” and deserve a space to find it.

Smart Matching

Our algorithm learns what matters to you โ€” values, vibe, and lifestyle โ€” not just looks.

Verified Profiles

Every member is verified before they can message. Real people, real connections, zero bots.

Local Events

Discover curated events near you โ€” coffee tastings, gallery nights, and outdoor adventures.

Icebreaker Prompts

Never stare at a blank text box. Our prompts spark real conversations from the first hello.

Interest Groups

Join communities around hiking, books, art, or whatever you love โ€” meet people who get you.

Flirt Mode

Send playful flirty reactions without saying a word. Let the sparks fly naturally.

Simple Steps

From sign-up to sparks in minutes

We made it effortless so you can focus on what really matters โ€” real connection.

1

Create Your Profile

Tell us about yourself, your passions, and what you're looking for. It takes under 3 minutes.

2

Discover Matches

Browse curated profiles or let our smart matching surface people you'll genuinely click with.

3

Connect & Meet

Chat, flirt, join events, and take the leap to meet someone who feels just right.

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Community First

A space that feels like yours

Hei Flirt is designed around community โ€” a place where men and women support, inspire, and connect with each other beyond just dating.

  • Community spaces
  • Monthly themed events & mixers
  • Mentorship & friendship matching
  • Moderated for kindness & respect
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Your Rules

Flirt on your own terms

No unsolicited photos. No pressure. No ghosting tolerated. Velour puts the power firmly in your hands with granular privacy and control settings.

  • Control who can see your profile
  • Unmatch & block in one tap
  • Incognito browsing mode
  • 24/7 in-app reporting team
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Safety First

Your safety is our non-negotiable

We built every feature with your wellbeing at the center โ€” because you deserve to feel completely safe while you find connection.

ID Verification

Optional ID verification badge shows you exactly who you're talking to.

AI Moderation

Our AI scans messages for harmful content and flags violations instantly.

Quiet Mode

Pause all notifications and activity with one tap โ€” no questions asked.

Safe Meeting Guide

Tips, venue suggestions, and a check-in feature for your first dates.

End-to-End Encryption

All your messages are fully encrypted โ€” only you and your match can read them.

Live Support

Real humans available 24/7 to handle reports, concerns, and emergencies.

Real Stories

Women who found their spark

Don't just take our word for it โ€” here's what Hei Flirt members have to say.

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"I was so tired of other apps. Velour actually felt safe and fun from day one. Met my girlfriend here after two weeks!"

Sophie
Sophie L.Paris, France
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"The community events are incredible. I've made three really close friends through the hiking group alone. Life-changing."

Maya
Maya T.London, UK
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"Finally an app that matches on personality AND lifestyle. The smart matching actually works. I'm engaged now!"

Camille
Camille R.Paris, FR

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